Judgement

   

      Judgement.  Everyone does it.  Everyone sees it, but why do we do it?
      Judgement is a type of self-esteem booster.  Those who judge, find flaws in others and point them out to make themselves feel happier, or more confident than they were before.
      But, the people who do judge, only know part of their story.  They think they know that person's whole life, but, in reality, they only know a portion.  We all do this for a reason; we don't want to be embarrassed or insecure by expressing our whole story.  People who do judge, have their walls up and are very insecure, as well.
       And, before you go and say that you do not judge, that is a lie.  All of us have judged someone at least once.  I'm not going to lie, I have done it on more than one occasion; one does it to feel better about themselves.  They want to put themselves in a higher place than anyone else, a higher hierarchy, so to speak.  Most importantly, the ones who do judge, are just too scared of what others might think of the real them, so they hide it behind their judgement-filled ego.  Judgement, to them, is a way for them to keep their wall from being broken down, like they break down other's.
      Furthermore, I would like to say that judgement, no matter how fulfilling it may be to your self-esteem, isn't something that should be occurring often.  Sure, it may happen eventually, but that is human nature to judge; it shouldn't be the only thing helping boost one's self confidence.  Keep this in mind, and think of it when you are about to judge someone; your judgement of one does not define them, it defines you.